pure love is pure acceptance---no ifs and no buts. what we get when we choose to love someone is a package. we can't choose to get and have only what we want. we have to accept and love what is in there. coz nobody's perfect. it's ourselves that makes someone perfect for us. so don't seek for somethings your partner don't have. what he/she is and what he/she has is all he/she has. nothing more, nothing less. asking for more is an insult. making him/her act the way you like is not loving him/her at all. better yet, find someone who she/he's not.
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-cecile